Why does it hurt so much when I sit?
Because sitting presses the hamstring tendon against the sit-bone it attaches to – a direct compression of the already-irritated tendon. That is why hard surfaces and long drives are the worst, and why a wedge cushion and changing position help. This compression is central to the condition and explains several of its most frustrating features, including why the natural instinct to stretch backfires.
Should I stretch it?
Not aggressively – and this surprises most people. Deep hamstring stretching bends the hip and compresses the tendon against the bone, which aggravates a proximal hamstring tendinopathy rather than easing it. The tendon needs progressive loading (isometrics, then heavy-slow resistance), not stretching. We often see people whose pain persisted for months precisely because they kept stretching it – stopping that and loading instead is a turning point.
How is this different from a hamstring strain?
A hamstring strain is an acute tear in the muscle belly, usually from a sprint, causing sudden pain in the back of the thigh. Proximal hamstring tendinopathy is a gradual overload of the tendon attachment at the sit-bone, causing deep buttock pain worse with sitting and running. They are different injuries in different places, treated differently – which is why an accurate diagnosis matters before you start.
How long will it take to get better?
Honestly, months – tendons are slow. Established cases typically need three to six months of consistent loading, though reactive cases caught early can settle sooner. Progress shows as less pain when sitting and loading, and being able to run and hip-hinge again. The people who commit to the loading and avoid compression improve reliably; the ones who rest or stretch tend to stall.
Could this deep buttock pain be sciatica instead?
It can be confused with it, and we check. The sciatic nerve runs close to the hamstring attachment, so proximal hamstring tendinopathy can even cause mild nerve-type symptoms – but true sciatica usually comes from the lumbar spine and has its own pattern. We assess the spine, piriformis and nerve to be sure we are treating the right source, because treating a tendon when the problem is the spine (or vice versa) does not work.
When is surgery indicated?
Rarely. Surgery is reserved for a complete tendon avulsion (usually an acute injury where the tendon pulls fully off the bone) or for genuinely refractory tendinopathy that has failed a proper, sustained loading programme. The everyday tendinopathy is managed with loading and compression avoidance – and the great majority of people never need an operation.